From Motherhood to Muse: Reclaiming Identity through women's portrait photography
- Melinda Raines

- Aug 25
- 4 min read
The Vanishing Act of Motherhood ~ women's portrait photography
There’s a moment that happens for so many women — somewhere between diapers, deadlines, and dinner dishes — when we catch our reflection and barely recognize the person looking back.

Motherhood transforms everything: our bodies, our priorities, our sense of time. But for many of us, it also brings an invisible loss — a quiet fading of the woman we once were.
The one who danced, who dreamed, who had her own rhythm before life revolved around everyone else’s needs.
An Archetype Portrait can be the moment she steps back into the frame. This is why I specialize in Women's Portrait Photography.
"When I became a mother, I lost a big part of myself because of the trauma that was coming up to be digested. I was stuck for a longtime, until photography became path to reclaiming my sensuality, my personal power, my visibility, and my self-worth. That practice taught me how to hold space for the tender, shameful, and scary parts of a woman’s journey with deep respect and humility.”
The Mother Archetype — and What Comes After
Motherhood is one of the most powerful archetypes we can embody. It holds tenderness, resilience, and fierce devotion. But it’s not meant to be our only identity.
In archetypal psychology, when one archetype dominates too long, others become exiled — the Lover, the Muse, the Warrior, the Queen. Archetype Portraits can be a way of calling them home.
"When one client came for her session, she said she didn’t feel confident anymore — constantly seeking to do the 'right' thing and pressuring herself for perfection as a mother. By the end, she saw herself as perfectly imperfect and boldly unapologetic again.”
Through guided conversation and creative direction, we uncover the energy that’s been waiting beneath the surface — the woman who still exists beyond the roles she plays.

The Portrait Session as Rite of Passage
An Archetype Portrait Session isn’t just about looking good in photos. It’s a ritual of remembrance.
We begin with intention — asking: What part of you wants to be seen?Sometimes it’s sensuality. Sometimes confidence. Sometimes softness after years of armor.
Then, in nature or at home, we create images that honor both the woman she’s been and the one she’s becoming.
“We always start with intention setting, breathwork and an embodiment visualization, helping her feel grounded and attuned to the energy she's inviting in before I lift the camera.”
What unfolds is often emotional. There are tears, laughter, deep exhales. The photos are proof — not of perfection, but of presence.

Why So Many Women Choose This Moment
Women often find me at a turning point —
after a divorce, a milestone birthday, a career change, or simply the realization that they’ve outgrown the version of themselves they were.
They want a tangible symbol of their becoming.
A portrait can mark the line between “who I’ve been” and “who I’m ready to be now.”In this way, the camera becomes a witness — not of performance, but of reclamation.
“I wanted something to show my girls that says, 'this is me, this is who I am in addition to their mom'. I want a keepsake photograph for them so they will always know who their mother was as a whole woman."
Motherhood and the Muse Energy
The Muse archetype isn’t about vanity — it’s about aliveness. She reminds us that pleasure, creativity, and expression are sacred forms of nourishment.
Reconnecting with her doesn’t take away from motherhood — it makes it richer.When you feel creatively alive, your children see what wholeness looks like.

My daughter watched me photographing in the forest one day and said, ‘Mama, you look so free.’ That’s the moment I knew I was modeling something deeper than I ever could through words.”
The archetype of the Muse says: You are still a woman with a pulse, not just a caretaker.
Section 5: The Power of Being Seen
When you’re photographed with intention, something shifts. You begin to see your strength, your softness, your beauty — not as others define it, but as you experience it.
That self-recognition ripples outward. You walk differently. Speak differently. Parent differently.
You stop waiting to “get back” to who you were and begin becoming who you are now.
"When I saw the photos, it was a full-circle moment — the realization that what I had been reaching for had arrived. The unveiling was truly captivating. I saw myself as I have longed to be seen, and it gave me the confidence to show my family, “This is who I am.”"

If You’re Feeling Lost Between Identities
If you’re in that in-between — no longer who you were, not yet who you’re becoming — this is your invitation to pause and witness yourself.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to show up.
We’ll let your archetype lead the way — the Mother, the Muse, or maybe something entirely new.
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